Monthly Round Up/Review

Last year I attempted to update once a week about how I was doing at reaching my New Years Resolutions. I made it about 3 months  before all that became too much. So this year I’m going to round off the end of each month with how my resolutions are coming along. In addition, I will review the months blog posts, which were my favorite, which got the most traffic, and what my income looks like. That is right my friends I’m going to be doing monthly income reports. Why now? Well I’m going into year three of this blogging thing and I’m determined to make it the year that I accomplish real profits. Down the line this post might become my monthly newsletter, but for now I will just make it a monthly post.

Posts by category:

Motherhood: 4

Education: 4

Employment: 3

Social: 2

News: 4

Hobbies: *New Category* 1

My favorite posts to write this month:

Hobbies: Creative Writing

Three Ways to Recover From the Holidays

10 Things To Do Before Graduation

Ditch New Years Resolutions

Starting an At Home Business

Posts that received the most traffic:

One of my older posts seems to consistently be at the top of the list for most views received. Expiration vs. Use By Dates received 32 views this month. It looks like I may need to update this post and perhaps even look into writing some more posts like it. Just behind this post were Three Ways to Recover from the Holidays , what’s new in the new year?, New Year Healthy Me, and Ditch New Years Resolutions.


New Years Resolutions:



Well I have been doing pretty good about eating healthier this year. Though I haven’t completely cut out soda I have been drinking less soda and exchanging it for tea and water. I hope to do better this next month. I’ve developed a good sleep routine for baby, but now I need to get myself on board with this. I was brought down at the end of this month with a horrible virus you may have noticed that I only posted two posts last week. I was very sick and not capable of doing much, however I will not let it bring me down I will achieve everything I aimed for this year. Now that I’m feeling better I am even more determined to get myself healthy this year.


We were doing  really good with  developing a budget for our family, however my getting sick did put a damper on our food budget. I’m the one who cooks everything since my husband works long hours and lets just say that was not happening with the way I was feeling. However, prior to me getting sick I learned a lot about food budgeting. Had I not gotten sick our food budget would have been cut in half this month from what we typically budget. Considering we always go over that budget that was pretty amazing. We still have plans for saving our tax returns for moving  and we also have plans for purchasing my blog rights. I did well at keeping consistent work hours this month. I look forward to doing an even better job next month.


I’m happy to say that I was able to devote time to my hobbies beyond just writing this month. I finished reading 1 book and started a another you can expect to see a blog regarding my reading list later this week. You can also expect two book reviews in February. I’m so excited about having this new blog section/category and I can’t wait to share more fun activities with you.

To summarize:

I managed to hit on two aspects of my health goal drinking less soda and more water, and planning healthy meals and snacks. I almost achieved my goal of 5 posts every week/write daily. I did write in my journal while I was sick, I suppose that counts. I haven’t quite taken the necessary steps needed to fix my credit, but I am setting it up so that it is possible. I’m definitely reading more after all I’ve already finished reading one book and started a second.

Writing Goals:

I have already touched a little on my writing goals, and I set some very specific goals this year. One of the goals for my blog was to have 10,000 followers by December. I’ve already seen an increase of 1-2 followers per week since the New Year began my hope is that number only increases once I buy the rights and get into a more regular patter of what each day of the weeks hosts.


I will be entering February with one new client which I find super exciting. I haven’t been able to do too much on this front as I’ve been focused on my blog and Kinnectpay this month. I am hoping once I own my blog rights I can put more emphasis on finding new clients.

Creative Writing:

I was offered the opportunity to work on an e-book so I’ve put my steampunk idea on the back burner. I do plan to write a couple of short stories to send out either to magazines or a competition, but for now my plate is a little full I will return to this idea in July after teh e-book project is complete.

To summarize:

Getting sick put a big damper on achieving my writing goals for this month, however I will not let it stop me from completing my writing goals for the year. I know I can do this and I look forward to achieving every single one.

calculator-428294_1920My Income Report: $105

Iwriter: $25.05

Total: $130.05

I did put any of the money back into the business this month as I needed it to help cover the extra expenses of me being sick. In the months where I do put some money into the business i.e when I purchase my blog or if I make any other purchase that is directly related to blogging or working from home I will include those expenses here. The above money does not include paypal fees or taxes.

Let me know what you think about my first Income Report and let me know what goals you achieved this month in the comments below?

College Life

How to Write an Undergraduate Essay Like a Master’s Student: Part 2

Do Your Research:

Before you can write the paper you must first do the research. In some cases you may also want to have an idea of/for the thesis. For more information on how to write a thesis please see part four (coming soon). Every teacher and professor will likely have their own requirements for the types of articles or literature you can use. There are three main resource types primary, secondary, and tertiary. Many professors will require that you utilize journal articles, which are considered primary resources. However some will require the use of books, which are for the most part considered a secondary resource.

What falls under the criteria of a primary resource?

> original written works i.e poems, diaries, court records, interviews, surveys, and scholastic journals/articles.

What falls under the criteria of a secondary resource?

> reference materials including dictionaries, encyclopedias and textbooks.

> Newspapers and magazines are often considered secondary resources, but in some case may be considered a primary resource.

What is a tertiary resource?

A tertiary resource is a resource with the primary usage of  organizing and locating primary and secondary resources. One way you may use a tertiary resource is if you are analyzing the google results or database search results of a particular topic. For instance you might note in a research paper that there are 81 million results for Justin Bieber.

With the understanding of the different types of resources it is now important to know how to go about finding the right resources for your paper. Key words are an important part of locating articles or literature. Before beginning your research it is important to have at least 3 different keywords or phrases. It’s also important to write down every key phrase or word you use when completing your cursory research as you will want to note it in your essay as you describe the research you have done. This is especially important when completing a qualitative research study.


You are writing an essay on “How Dog Ownership Leads to Better Health.”

You go over to your database and type in that long phrase and you are likely going to receive errors for too many words or articles whose only relevance to your statement is they use the words How to in the title or article. A good first search would instead be dog ownership health.

Now when I typed this search into Google Scholar I received 127,000 results that is a lot, but few enough that you could probably go through them and find some relevant articles. However, it may be that you receive a result number that is on the large side. It is important to keep all research as relevant to today as possible especially if you are completing research that relates to today. If you are doing a historical analysis then the time at which the article was published likely doesn’t matter. However, to make sure the science and statistics are relevant to today especially with a topic such as health it might be wise to provide parameters for the publication date.

For this topic try and make sure articles are no more than 5 years old. If research is too thin with that number then as long as you don’t extend it past ten years you should be fine. When I apply the yearly range for my key phrase dog ownership health it lowered the number of results from 127,000 to a smaller 19,800 results. Google scholar also includes citations and patents in its results, but for the case of this research I just want journal articles so I remove those options and lower the result number to 18,400. Google scholar has a means of doing a more detailed search where you can look for your keywords in the title only or within the article. You can also do a search for articles that do not include a certain phrase or that include exact phrasing. You can also search a specific journal by typing in the journal name. When I searched titles only with my key phrase I received a mere 9 results.

Other key phrases for this topic might be:

Healthy dog owners

Dog owners improved health

After you pull up a result page with different articles it is important to read through the results. Do not read each article in full instead read the abstract if available. If there is no abstract available read the introduction, both will let you know if it is a good article for your project. In addition, many teachers will recommend you have a certain number of articles that you use in your research always pull 2-4 extra articles just in case one or more of them do not have anything to do with your article. You will come to find that some articles are more useful than others. Make sure you are choosing articles that will aid your research, but that will also not provide the same information. You want to be able to utilize all of your articles within your paper and if you pull five articles and only one actually pertains to what your research topic is about or three of the topics pertain, but all essentially say the same thing you may want to diversify the information. You want a group of articles that will take the subject from the different main points. Now you won’t know if you need more articles till you read the initial ones you have. If your professor states you need 8 articles for your paper print off 5 you feel really comfortable with. Make sure you record the citation information as you do. This will save you a step when creating your work cited page and when you are having to cite the articles within your paper.

If the paper is due within a week or even a month you will not have time to read each article the recommended three times. Here is the rule of reading and taking notes from journal articles.

Super Speed:

As you read the article highlight the main ideas and pieces of information that you may want to quote in your paper later. Use 3 different highlighters to represent the different points. Statistics are best marked with green, yellow is best for good ideas, and a third color orange is preferable works well with the passages you may want to quote. Do not read an entire article if you get through the first 3-5 pages and absolutely know it will be of no use to you. If it turns out to be a dud put it away. Read longer articles first. Also if a section is droning on with statistics and you are not needing statistics for your position within your research feel free to skip over it and move onto the parts that actually pertain to what you are writing your article on. Once you’ve read the five articles you picked out then continue your search of the online database and find the remaining articles you need. Be sure to focus your search on any areas of the research where you are missing information or have questions.

I can afford to take some time:

So you have some time before your paper is due and can afford to spend a little extra time researching. Aim for two read throughs. The first read through do not use any highlighters take notes on any questions you have after reading the article or while reading the article and let that be it. Later after you have found all of the articles you need go back through and complete the highlighting read through.

I have a lifetime to write this research paper:

If you have the whole semester before the paper is due and your the early bird who likes to get a head start then aim to read your articles three times. First without highlighting and just writing down your questions and thoughts. The second time go through it with the highlighters. Finally, as you make your third read through notate how the article actually helps your essay/research. What questions have been answered or ideas have been created within your head.

You may have noticed that the previous information focused on journal articles and may be wondering okay, but my teacher said I need at least one secondary resource. I need a book for my research. Your library is your friend. The library database works similar to a scholarly database. Use the same keywords. Once you have found a few possible titles go check out those sections of the library to know whether a book is a good fit for your research check the following locations.

Read the back/inside cover, this will give you a synopsis of the book.

Then read the table of contents. The table of contents will aid you in knowing which chapters will be most useful.

If the whole book appears useful read the introduction or the first page of chapter one.

Now no one wants to read an entire book for a research paper especially if they only have a short period of time in which to write it. Don’t think you have to read the whole book in order to use it within your essay. Pick one-three chapters that will be useful to your research and focus your attention there. Use sticky notes to keep track of different sections you may want to quote or that inspire ideas and questions. Make copies of the pages you will be reading for your article so that you don’t have to carry around an extra book. When making copies be sure to make a copy of the copyright page as you will need it for citation purposes.


Starting an At Home Business

So you want to start a business from home, well I will be the first person to tell you it isn’t easy. I’ve been bumbling along with this blog for two full years now (just started year three) and my first piece of advice to anyone is do not quit your day job right away. I quit my job for what I thought were medical reasons before starting this blog, of course I found out 1 week too late that nothing was medically wrong with me I was just pregnant. Opps!

I ended up blogging because I was too big for anyone to want to hire me, after all I had very few qualifications being fresh out of college and I was pregnant. Who wants to hire on that sort of a train wreck. Anyway, I started freelance writing and running this blog. I averaged about $300 per month making $700 during the month I was due and then even though by that point I had it all figured out. I knew exactly what was needed to really get my stuff up and running I was too overwhelmed with caring for a new infant. I just couldn’t quite put in the effort necessary to do it.

I went and got a real job eventually, but still maintained my side thing. The job just didn’t feel right for me, plus my husband got a promotion so I returned home. I started slowly playing more and more with my blog again. (Not that I had really given it up, I had continued to post updates, but it wasn’t quite the same as when I first started out.) However, it is a new year and I am ready to rock it. If you really want to start a business from home I recommend you keep your day job and research every aspect of the at home business you are wanting to start first. Give yourself about 6 months to fine-tune all the information and figure out what is going to be best for you. If you are thinking about doing something like freelance writing find yourself a few clients.

Get everything set up and ready including your website and social media accounts. Build your product line if you are considering doing something like selling on Amazon or Etsy. Also have at least three to six months worth of money to pay bills lined up. Once you have done these things you will be ready to quit your job and really give your at home business a good hard try. If you find yourself in a position like I was in, don’t be afraid to invest a hundred or so dollars to get yourself started. I wish I had done this, because if I had I could easily have brought in a few extra hundred dollars or even thousands of dollars extra every month just with affiliate marketing and ad revenue. As such I haven’t been able to bring in anywhere close to this kind of cash, because I don’t/didn’t own my domain. That all changes this year. This year my domain will be mine.

*This post was sponsored by for more info please read my post What’s New in the New Year

College Life

How to Write an Undergraduate Essay Like a Master’s Student: Part 1

I was originally going to write an e-book on how to write an awesome undergrad essay, after all I spent four years writing some amazing essay’s and I even completed a 200 plus page honors thesis my junior year. To say I have experience in essay writing is an understatement. As it turns out the market is flooded with all kinds of essay writing how to books. So instead I’ve decided to turn each section into its own blog article. I hope you find this series useful. Please feel free to ask questions or leave comments in the box at the bottom of the page.

Picking The Right Topic

As an undergrad you will not always or even often be given the option of choosing your research topic however on occasion you may be given the option of choosing the angle or side of a topic you are being asked to write. It is important to consider the following  questions as you choose your research topic.

Does it interest you?

Any project you will be spending more than a week on should be able to keep and maintain your interest. Even when you do not get to pick your topic finding a way to enjoy the research you are doing is essential when working on a long term project. When you are uninterested it can cause you to procrastinate or not do as in-depth  research as you could if you were interested.

What do you already know?

It is important to consider topics with which you already have some basic knowledge of. By choosing a topic you have some familiarity with you are giving yourself a leg up in the research portion. By having some first hand or previous knowledge you are able to choose keywords and phrases that will best assist you in locating literary research supporting or negating your thesis.

Do you have any preconceived opinions or assumptions that might bias your opinion?

It is important to consider your misconceptions or assumptions as you embark on your research exposition. You do not want your bias to bias the paper or the research.

How much research is out there on the  subject? Is it well explored or is the research thin/scarce?

Before choosing a topic it is important to visit Google Scholars or a reputable Scholarly database to do some cursory research for example say you wanted to write a report about Teenage mothers who graduated from a  four year College. You might find that there is a large amount of research on the subject. Whereas simultaneously if you choose a topic like Vitamin C’s effect on Cancer you will likely find little to none. The amount of research that is already out there on the subject could be helpful or detrimental depending on the type of research project you are doing. If you are doing a research project that requires an experiment it would be nice to have other research out there that completed the same or similar experiment having other research could be supportive or it could also hinder your experiment as others might compare your research and claim that because of the different aspects within the experiment your results are flawed. Now if you are simple wanting to complete a qualitative study dependent more upon historical documentation and the social implications of a subject then having more research already out on the web is better.

How well does the topic fit within the assignment?

After a short 30 minute cursory research session you should be able to determine whether the topic you are considering  is the right fit for your research project. Should you determine that your original research idea is not the right fit for the project then reconsider the direction.

For example if you were originally considering researching early childhood obesity and how it may positively affect individuals as adults, change your  angle to how childhood obesity may affect the child’s future academically. I. E how likely is it for a child who struggled with childhood obesity to go to college and complete a four year degree. All in all reconsider how you define the meaning of positively.

There are many questions science has not yet been able to answer either through social or scientific theory. Consider your audience, consider the available research, and most importantly consider your interest.


Leadership and Accountability

What does it mean to be accountable when in a leadership position? As a leader you are responsible for what your team does, if those below you on the work line are messing up it is your mess up. It is important to know as a leader when to be patient, when to coach, when to delegate, and when to put your foot down.

Patience as a Leader:

Many times when you are working especially when you are working in a leadership role, you will have to deal with “green hornes” or people who have never done this type of job or work before. When dealing with people like this it is important to maintain patience as they may have many questions. In addition, people who come into a new job with little to no experience may also be slow, or afraid to ask questions. It is important to know when it is okay to allow the person to make mistakes and when to step in and explain the procedure. As a leader you are accountable for the new persons progress. It is important to give them the proper training, but depending on the job, there may not be a lot of time for one on one treatment. In these situations be sure to give clear verbal instruction and perhaps even show them once or twice so they can get a visual.

Coaching as a Leader:

As a leader it is important to know how to give a good pep talk as well as a good tongue lashing. People are going to mess up, they are going to test boundaries. It is the way we learn. Be sure to encourage your fellow teammates when they have been especially successful at completing a task. Sometimes you will have one bad apple or perhaps on rare occasion an entire team of people who don’t seem to be there for the job, but rather just want a paycheck. In these situations it is important you have conversations about how when the company does well they get paid more either via tips or raises down the line. Communication is key when working in any type of team environment. When you have someone pushing the boundaries by coming in late, or slacking off and attempting to push their work onto others it is important to pull them to the side and explain why this is hurtful not only to the company, but themselves. When you have a team every link in the chain has to work at its full potential otherwise tensions rise and people are hurt.

Delegating as a Leader:

There is always work to be done. You as the leader can not handle everything on your own. Just as you can’t do everything yourself you should not expect your team to do there jobs and your job. When in a leadership role and feeling overwhelmed consider the work load of your fellow team mates what can be rearranged. Maybe you need to give someone else one of your larger tasks and take over one or two of their smaller tasks so you have the time to do the rest of what you need to do. Perhaps someone isn’t quite capable of doing one of the tasks you had previously provided them. Do not be afraid to move tasks around between teammates and yourself as long as the job gets done and is done right it doesn’t matter who does it. Also respect your team understand that they are not under you to do all of your work, they are their to support you and the work that you do. Leaders are paid more because they have the hard job of making sure that the job gets done either by themselves or someone else. If you do not have some one who is available to do the job and it needs to be done now, you better get to stepping and do that job.

Putting your foot down as  a Leader:

Your teammates do not need to be abused, over worked, or harassed by their fellow workers. If you have a teammate who is consistently causing problems by either showing up late, pawning work onto someone else, or simply poking and poking at someone until they loose it. It is your responsibility to talk to and assess the problem with this individual. If talking, warnings, and changing of the situation does not result in a change you must then consider if this is a person worth keeping. If you don’t have control of getting rid of someone who is beneath you, and you have used all your options of resolving the issue on your own it may be time to go up the chain of command. It is important to do your business of communicating and attempting to resolve all issues on your own before going up the chain.

Do you work in a leadership role? Are you responsible for the mistakes that your team makes? How do you handle it when your team fails?  Share in the comments below.

Organizing, Uncategorized

Surviving Life with a Baby Part 5: Chore Chart

Since my little one was born I have been sending out these helpful Surviving Life with a Baby articles. I have part five for you this month for those who missed Parts 1, 2, 3, and 4 please check them out at the links below. There is no real reason why you should have to read them in order though. organizer-791939_1920

Part 1>> The daily Schedule

Part 2>> The weekly Schedule

Part 3>> The monthly Schedule

Part 4>> The Yearly Schedule

We have daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly chores that lets face it, it is important we do if we want to maintain a neat and tidy house.


It is important that at least once or twice a year we de-clutter our homes from top to bottom, if you maintain a schedule where once a year (or twice) you have a set week or month that you dedicate to de-cluttering your home you might just find that your house or apartment is a happier environment.

When I am in the throws of Spring, Cleaning I like to break it up into different projects. My list typically breaks down into different rooms.





Flat Surfaces

Dining/Living Area

For other cool tips on Spring Cleaning Check out this post from 2015.

Spring Cleaning: Tips and Tricks to a Fresh Start of the Year


There are things we should really do to keep our house in order every month, and I am not just talking about paying bills. Here are a few things I find it important to do every month to keep the house clean.

We don’t have a washer and dryer in the house so we have to take our laundry outside the home to wash it. So once a month I gather everything up to wash.

To Do List:


Clean bathroom mirrors

Clear out the fridge


Twice a week I take out the trash including the diaper pale, recycling, and kitchen. I bring out trash on Sunday, and Thursday.

To Do List:



Meal Plan

water plants


Grocery Shopping


My daily chores seems like a long list, but I can generally get each item done in about 10 or fifteen minutes. Dishes however are a different story. It takes me thirty minutes to do dishes. So I do my best to get the dishes done first thing every morning.

To Do List:


sweep floors

wipe counters

pick up baby toy mess

wipe down the high chair

pick an item from the weekly/monthly/yearly list

I like breaking my to do list down into pieces. In addition, to my daily chore list I also like to give myself two or three daily goals outside of chores to achieve. I really hope this helps you get a handle on all your household chores. If you have older children assign daily tasks, have each day represent a different activity. My little one is barely 18 months old and I already have him helping with toy clean up. I sing the clean up song and put his toys away. He attempts to sing along and will pick up a couple of toys to throw into the container with me. Kids are never too young to learn how to help. Teach them now and you will have less argument later. Form habits. Turn your chores into habits so they are less like chores.


For more ideas on breaking down your chores into single tasks check out my article Single Tasking Day.

Have any advice or suggestions? Let me know in the comments. I am always looking for fun organizing chore tips.


Hobbies: Creative Writing

Well, I told you this new section of my blog might be coming this year. Indeed, I have chosen to go through with it. I am a person who has many interests. Deep down I am an intellectual, creative, and spiritual minded person. I believe in finding balance in the chaos of life. I attempt to achieve balance in everything I do. It is important to have hobbies. We all need something that takes us away from the here and now of today. Reading and writing are long time hobbies of mine, which is why I felt it fitting for my first hobbies post to be centered upon writing.

Breastfeeding really got me into a bad habit of binge watching netflix shows. So much so that I’ve continued this habit despite having stopped breastfeeding five months ago. Recently I watched the entire 8 part series of the OA. It was fascinating. I loved the way you were unable to tell what was truth and what was fiction. (Of course the whole thing is fiction.) I loved that you couldn’t tell if she was making up the story of what happened to her and what she experienced.

The whole show got me thinking about how I can utilize my hobbies within my writing. The OA, held questions about psychology, spirituality, and it included dance as well as the already spoken of question is this fact or fiction. I wrote a short story for my creative writing class once, a story that I based off my own real life experiences. One of the criticisms I received was that it did not seem realistic. When I told the class it had really happened they then gave critique on the perspective. Suggesting I change it. When I did the story was accepted and perceived much better.

I have started writing creative fiction again, I’m trying to incorporate my interests beyond reading and writing into it. I have taken on many hobbies in the past, but non have withstood time as much or as well as writing. When I consider this and wonder about why that is, I only have one real response. Writing allows me to express myself with expression, because I can publish it or not publish it. If I do publish it they will click a button or not click a button. Who am I to care about whether someone choose to click a like button or not?

I hope you enjoyed this introduction to my hobbies section. Stay tuned for next weeks hobbies post where I reveal my reading list for the New Year.


Ditch New Years Resolutions

The average person will likely give up on their New Years Resolutions by the 17th of January. I have a theory about this. Many of us develop New Years Resolutions about loosing weight, quitting smoking, or getting out of debt. However, come mid month the shame of the holidays sinks in as the credit card , and utility bills arrive. We realize we over spent  and now we have no idea how we are ever going to pay for it. That or we stress because it means extra hours at the office or giving up that morning Starbucks or date night, because we can’t afford a sitter for at least two months until this bill is paid off.

As I pondered my theory I realized that stress causes many of us to go to our comfort zones. We return to smoking  even though we can’t afford it. We skip the gym, and nurse our wounds while eating Ben & Jerry’s  as we binge watch Netflix anything to keep us from thinking about that horrible piece of bad news in our mailbox or inbox. We gave up on getting out of debt because its just too hard.

I’ve definitely been sitting pretty in the its too hard category for a lot longer than I should have been. As a result of developing this theory, I spent some time traversing the maze of Pinterest looking for the 5 easiest ways to get started on fixing your little piece of bad news and saving money to help get you out of debt. Bonus for those of you who can’t afford that gym membership you were so looking forward to. To loose weight or just to get fit I also have 3 tips to getting healthy without spending a dime.

5 Ways to start Saving Money and Start Getting Yourself Out of Debt

Trick #1: 365 Day Penny Challenge

You can start this challenge today with just $1.53, tomorrow add 18 more cents, the next day 19 cents. Every day this year add the amount of pennies for the day of the year. On December 31st you will add $3.64 (unless its a leap year, which 2017 is not then it would be $3.65).

Trick #2: 2 Liter Dime Challenge

A 2 liter bottle holds about $700 worth of dimes. Anytime you get a dime, or find a dime place it in a 2 liter bottle. By the time it is full you will have saved around $700.

Trick #3: $30 for 36 weeks

Save $30 every week for 36 weeks and you will end up with $1,080. Think about this $30 a week that’s 3 fast food meals, 4 trips to Starbucks, or 4 packs of cigarettes. If you have any of those naughty habits then it will be easy to find $30 every week. If not, consider this that’s $120 a month you are wanting to save. Can you cut your budget anywhere, maybe your grocery bill? Get rid of cable? Do this and you will have enough money to cover all those Christmas presents you just bought, or at the very least you will have enough money to buy this years Christmas presents.

Trick #4: 3 different ways to save $1,000

$1,000 by Christmas

30 days to $1,115

$1,000 in 52 weeks

Trick #5: 52 weeks to $2,756

Save the 2 time the week of the year. So week one save $2, week 52 save $104. Don’t worry about doing the weeks in order either. If you have a really good month and happen to be able to cross of weeks 52, 51, 50, and 49 go for it. Just make sure each week is marked off before the end of the year.

My 5 Get Healthy Tips

#1 YouTube is your friend

There are so many free youtube work outs to choose from. If you are a big fan of yoga you can easily find any type of yoga session for free via youtube. I personally enjoy doing a ten minute morning wake up session and a ten minute evening warm down session. Just type in ten minute yoga morning, or ten minute yoga evening.

#2 Drink more water

Drinking water is an easy get healthy goal. Simply bring a reusable water bottle with you everywhere you go. Frequently fill it up using a water pitcher or straight from the tap. There is no easier way to loose weight and get fit than by drinking more water.

#3 Meal Plan

Use this site to help you put together a shopping list, find easy recipes, and even see what is on sale at your local shopping market. I even wrote a blog article way back in 2015 on four sites to inspire you while deciding what’s for dinner. Check  out that article by clicking here.

If these awesome 8 tips don’t re-inspire you to start working hard towards your New Years Resolutions, then maybe it is time to re-evaluate your New Years Resolutions. Break them down into more manageable bite size pieces or come up with new goals ones that are more realistic for your drive. Did you perhaps make too many goals, maybe just pick one to focus on this year.

Tell me did any of these tips re-inspire you towards giving your resolutions another shot?


Kinnectpay: Income Mixer

Kinnectpay will be hosting a series of events this year.Every month you can check out one of their income mixers. Learn more about Kinnectpay and how it works. Taking place January 20th at the Nesbitt Memorial Library, in Columbus, TX. Start off the 2017 New Year learning how you can increase your revenue for your household, business, or Non-Profit by “Kinnecting” through social networking.

Learn how to #MakeMoney #SaveTime #SaveMoney by utilizing Social Networking, Digital Marketing, and Creative Event Services!

Refreshments and drinks will be available! Jan. 20th Nesbitt Memorial Library Columbus TX. 78934

This two hour event is the perfect opportunity for small business owners, or individuals looking to start a new business. 7:30pm – 9:30 pm

The Events will be taking place twice a month.


This blog post was sponsored by please check out their website for more information or check out my blog post here to consider joining.

Motherhood, Year Two

18 Month Baby Post

Wow we made it! My baby is 18 months old or for those of you attempting to do the math, he’s one in a half. So much has taken place in the past three months it is absolutely amazing to me.

masks-833421_1280My mental health:

The past three months have been rough between a car accident with my husband totaling our only vehicle. The one year anniversary of my mother in laws passing. Plus, the added stress of my husband switching jobs for the fourth time this year. Things have been crazy. Communication was not going so well for a little while their. Arguments were had. Severe yelling matches took place. In addition, to this my crawling baby became a walking toddler. Yep, that’s right my Little Wes is walking. I’m surprised my sanity has remained in check with the extreme magnitude of everything that has transpired in the past few months.

I will be honest it hasn’t been easy. My husband and I have argued before, more often then not it was related to us being hungry or because we do not communicate well when it comes to giving directions. However, that all being said it is likely something just clicked when the New Year came along. Just a few days into the new year and my husband and I are communicating together. We have worked out  a plan that gives me the time I need to work, but also provides us with the time we need to communicate together. Seeing as we lost the vehicle. I am no longer working with instacart, because though I could easily walk the distance to the local H.E.B, the money isn’t worth it to me. Plus I don’t want to be a personal shopper, I want to be a writer and I am determined that I can make the wage I need this year doing just that.

In all honesty, I believe the real reason I was able to keep sane over those last few months of 2016 was because I wrote in my journal religiously. I spoke about the troubles I was experiencing with an outside source (mostly my upstairs neighbor who is Awesome). I also spent months creating a plan and a routine that would work and allow me to complete everything I needed to do in a day. I think knowing that I had a plan for the new year to make it better was what really made the whole thing better. So enough about me, lets get to who you really came to this post to read about let’s get to my handsome baby boy and how he did these past few months.


How Baby?…wait no How Toddler is doing:

Well the cat is already out of the bag my little boy is walking. He is your typical happy toddler emptying book shelves, up-ending his toy bins, and pulling clothes of baskets and drawers. He’s climbing anything and everything. Somehow he still hasn’t figured out how to get out of his crib or playpen, but he does know how to climb onto the couch and on top of the dogs kennel. Wesley and the dog have become quick best friends. They “wrestle” together and even share food. I know not very hygienic, but really what am I going to do. Wesley has a large vocabulary now including words like…Wow! Dog! Out! Very Good! Thank you! For those who are new or don’t recall his first word was Mama. He quickly learned Dada and I Wuv You. He is also quickly learning food words like apple, Nan-Na (banana), and he even said waffle the other day.

We had a lot of holidays take place these past months. He enjoyed trick-or-treating and went as a “Dragon Roll.” I dressed him in a sushi outfit I created and decorated his stroller up as a dragon. I went as a Warrior Queen, using pieces of clothing I had in my closet. Thanksgiving we went simple, he loved the turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and green beans. For desert we had pumpkin pie. Christmas looked like a carnival. Santa treated him really well bringing him a play kitchen, tent, wooden ball maze, Mater-Pillow, play cell phone, and stacking cups. He got a few other things as well. He loves all of his gifts and plays with them all a little bit each day.

One big thing we learned about parenting over these past few months, was how much of a solid and regular routine toddlers really need. He started throwing tantrums if he didn’t get what he wanted. Now that I have goals of maintaining a regular routine (originally developed so I could have more time to write and make money blogging) we are seeing a happier less crabby baby. He still throws tantrums every now and again, but we are slowly working on getting him on a regular routine he is used to.

child-932083_1920Feeding Baby:

Well as you know he gave up the boob during month 13 all on his own. He is currently on almond milk per Doctors orders since cows milk was a bit rough on his stomach. He spent most of the past three months eating pouch baby food, plus solids that included what we were eating and what I had around the house. However, he is consuming so much food these days we are being forced to wean him off the pouched food and get him on a strictly solids diet. With the holidays our food budget was really tight last month. I got really creative and tested out some more solid foods with him. He is a big fan of frozen waffles, hard boiled eggs, PB&J, and chicken nuggets. He will eat basically anything you put in front of him. I’m working on creating a regular menu for him and I to share for Breakfast and lunch. He eats dinner at a different time from my husband and I so I’m attempting to work it out where our lunches are the leftovers from the previous nights dinner.

circle-304524_1280Tips and Tricks:

Keep a clean sippy cup in the diaper bag for long trips where you need to give the baby some water to tide them over. (It may also be worth it to carry around a bottle of water as well.)

Keep a clean trash bag in the baby bag for dirty diapers or clothes

Keep a bag of Gold fish, cheerios, or animal crackers for easy snacking when on the go.